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Born on September 4, 1972
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Rough Day...Need to Get It All Out
I've been having a rough time lately. I haven't been my usual self. The reason? I've gotten to the point of realizing my marriage is finished! I've been married for 13 years now, and that hasn't been ...
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The UN"Friend" Rears Her Ugly Head Again!
Yes, this is THE friend...the emotional vampire...and financial vampire.  Unfortunaly, this woman and my husband still work for the same company. My husband is currently looking for another job...does...
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Reality Through Art
One thing I loved about some of the old shows in the 80's, they talked about real stuff that affect real people...and they did it in a way that got information to the people while entertaining them, s...
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It's hard for me to watch...
Today, the divorce was final between two dear friends of mine. Though I do not know what went on behind the closed doors of their home, and I understand that both people had their faults (as no one is...
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iOS 7 Tips For My Fellow Techie Goths
So, I upgraded to iOS 7 yesterday, and immediately discovered a couple of things I didn't like, and figured I would share.1. If you have a game that will not work, try going into Settings | Notificati...
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Tell you, or not?
Question for the teenagers out there. If you weren't that good at something, would you rather your parents tell you? Or would you rather they just keep telling you how great you are and let you make a...
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Don't usually speak on political issues, but...
I want to go out there and say that I am happy with today's Supreme Court decisions. Now, many would say, "How can you be a Christian, and be okay with this?" Let me explain myself...I have friends wh...
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General Ranting For Today!
You can't sit there and complain that you can't meet your "perfect someone" when you never leave your house except to go to work. That "perfect someone" is not going to just mysteriously knock on your...
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Mom Problems!
To my younger friends out there...if you are having relationship problems with your mom, don't be so down on yourself...chances are, it isn't you. I'm 40 years old, and I still can't get my mother to ...
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Long time...
Okay...so what have I been doing lately, as I haven't been around much. I've been doing a lot of work in the area of health and fitness. After losing 85 lbs and getting my life back, I want to give ba...
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Look Like I'll Be Trimming Those Friend Lists (Not HERE...
Looking at things being said on other social media sites today, I'm going to be doing some trimming of my friend lists. I am amazed at some of the hateful remarks coming from people who claim themselv...
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For My US Friends...
I posted this on my blog today, but thought I would also want to share it here. I have stayed mum about the elections for obvious reasons (anyone that has seen the hateful comments on Facebook knows ...
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Ruined Birthday
Some of you know of "the friend" of which I will speak of in this blog. Well, she managed to ruin my birthday! I saw this coming...I truly did...but it doesn't make it hurt any less. See, 6 weeks ago...
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Embarassed
I typically stay out of politics when it comes to my online posts, but I do have to say that these day's, I am embarrassed to be in America!!! Seriously! I am very much scared for the future of this c...
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How Time Flies
As I asked for my birthday off today, it really hit me that in just over a month I turn 40, and it has gotten me thinking about what I've seen in my life. The year I was born, we only had wired rotar...